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Raksha Bandhan
Raksha
Bandhan is an unspoken pledge exchanged between a brother and sister
cementing their fraternal relationship. This also reinforces their
protective bond against all ills and odds. Raksha Bandhan is celebrated on
the day of Shravan Poornima that falls in the month of August every year.
On this very day, the sisters tie a delicate, sometimes decorated, thread
on the wrist of their brothers as a symbol of love and affection. This
makes the brothers bound to protect their sisters from any trouble or
wound. The chanting of a holy mantra by the sisters while tying the thread
says,
Yena
baddho Balee raajaa daanavendro mahaabalah |
Tena twaam anubadhnaami rakshe maa chala maa chala ||
It
means, “I am tying a Raksha to you, similar to the one tied to Bali, the
powerful king of the demons. Oh Raksha, be firm, do not waver.” The
mantra recalls how the demon king Bali had become powerful with the Rakhi
on. The power of the mantra is supposed to protect the wearer from evil
influences. This shows how dependent and secure a sister feels when she
has a brother. Tying this Rakhi or Raksha signifies the re-strengthening
of the bond between the siblings of opposite sexes.
How this simple, annually recurring act of tying the Rakhi on one’s
wrist can evoke such strong and intense emotions in a person is indeed
surprising. It seems almost like an unspoken pledge, exchanged between a
brother and a sister cementing their fraternal relationship and
reinforcing their protective bond against all ills and odds.
Rituals and
Customs
Raksha
Bandhan day starts with a festive mood in every Indian home. Rakhis are
made or bought a day before the festival. Traditional goodies and dishes
are prepared early in the morning. After an early bath, the offering Puja
(worshipping of god) takes place. The sister then offers “aarti” (a
traditional way of worshipping) to her brother and ties the thread on his
right wrist. Traditional “tilak”or vermilion powder on the forehead of
the brother is put and the brother blesses the sister. The tradition of
giving gifts and presents is also an important part of this festival. The
brother gifts his sister a gift after she ties the Rakhi on his wrist.
This gift acts as a token of love and affection of the brother towards the
sister. Sometimes sisters also demand for a gift of their own choice to
keep it as a loving memory of that very day. However, the blessing
bestowed by the brother itself is regarded as the biggest gift for the
sister. Treating her brother along with her entire family, the goodies and
eatables that have been prepared follows next. The normal rituals are
followed with great devotion and dedication.
Regions
India shows its unity among diversity in its various ways of celebrating
Raksha Bandhan too. Rakhi is mostly celebrated in the northern part of
India. The celebration of Raksha Bandhan is more or less the same in this
region. But the other parts of India celebrate this festival in various
other ways. The rituals and customs followed differ with region to region. |
Variations
The festival of
Raksha Bandhan is also known as Narial Poornima or Coconut Full Moon in
Mumbai’s famous beaches. Coconuts are thrown into the sea to propitiate
the Sea God, Varuna, who is the chief object of worship on this occasion.
The ‘three eyes’ of the coconut are believed to represent the
three-eyed Shiva and hence the religious significance. In fact, Hindus
consider it auspicious to break a coconut in front of a deity before
embarking upon any important venture.
A similar practice is followed in some other places in order to offer Puja
to the God of rain and water, Lord Varuna.
Raksha Bandhan is called Avani Avittam in South India. This is the time of
“upakarmam,” and is celebrated in various ways. It falls on the
full-moon day of the month of Shravan (August–September). It is an
important Hindu festival. On this day, Hindu Brahmans wear a new holy
thread and offer libations of water to the ancient Rishis.
The day is also set apart for Brahmins to change their sacred thread they
wear.
Thus, though the rituals and customs followed are different from region to
region, the festivities of the Indian festivals have always been present
in all the festivals. The characteristics like jauntiness, zeal, customs
and rituals, traditional cuisines are also very much present in all the
festivals here.
Social
The festival of
Raksha Bandhan is very significant in a Hindu society. Hindu society
values relationships to a great extent. Raksha Bandhan not only helps in
strengthening the relationship between brothers and sisters, it also
strengthens the relationship of the society in general. This simple
ceremony affirms the people’s loyalty and faith not only amongst
themselves, but also for the society. Celebration of festivals creates a
feeling of unity and belongingness in the minds of the people involved to
it.
Raksha BandhanToday
The passing of time
and the concept of globalization have influenced the festivals and the
ways of celebrating it. Today tying of Rakhi is not confined to the
siblings alone. The concept has been widened and Rakhi is tied to anybody
whom a girl wants to be a sister of.
Nowadays, Raksha Bandhan day is also a day for some of the girls to visit
the orphanages or prisons to tie Rakhi to the inmates of the orphanage and
jails. This is a total humanitarian approach. This kind act gives the
fated Rakhi brothers a feeling of hope that there are people who love and
care for them too.
To conclude, Raksha Bandhan stirs up one of the deepest and noblest
emotions in the human breast—the abiding and chaste bond of love between
the brother and the sister. The delicate cord tied by the sister to the
brother on this day pulsates with this sublime sentiment. The
sister–brother relationship highlighted by the Rakhi goes far beyond the
mere personal protection of a female from a male. It also implies the
basic element of an amicable and harmonious social life where all members
of the society look upon themselves as brothers and sisters and as
children of one common motherland.
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